Gay Activism and Volunteering Opportunities

June 30th, 2009

Drag Wars Coming Soon

Drag Wars Coming Soon

A gay friend recently asked me if I knew of any civic volunteering opportunties.

Off the top of my head I thought of One Voice Community Center, Phoenix Body Positive (or whatever their new clinical sounding name is) and 1n10 – Valley 1 n 10. I’m sure each of these organizations would be in need of volunteers.

Then there’s always Phoenix Gay Pride, One Voice Bowl-a-Thon and I heard something about the Arizona Sisters preparing for Drag Wars.

Let’s see, how about getting more political… ACLU, HRC, Marriage Equality? Or better yet… wonder if Guerilla Gay Bar needs someone to help out over there? Now that sounds like a great volunteering opportunity. Give back to the community and get tanked while you’re at it!

I’m calling them… But before I go, checkout Idealist.org and Volunteermatch.org

Uptown’s Movie Icon Gone?

June 27th, 2009

Movies on Central was a gay owned / operated video store in the Uptown district of Phoenix. Established in 1995 by Robert Foster, it was just what the area needed.

Movies on Central

Movies on Central

An alternative to Block Buster, a place you could get many hard-to-find gay documentaries and films. Oh, and yes… of course there was the backroom to find some of my favorites flicks.

It was located in what some thought of as the heart of Phoenix’ gay area, if Phoenix could actually boast such a thing. The Xavier Square shops also house Unique on Central, a long time gay retailer. Since completion of the Metro Light Rail line, the shops have experienced a rebirth with the opening of Haus, Lola Coffee and that cute pet supplies place, Oxford and Allie? Something like that.

Even more exciting for the area is the planned Hula’s Modern Tiki. Currently under construction, should be open within a few months.

With all of this excitement about openings, hardly anybody noticed a closing. A very sad closing. I heard that Movies on Central staff were spotted packing a big U-Haul out front last week.

Here I was fretting about the anticipated late fees on Hot House’s “Masterpiece“, huh… I could have kept it even longer! My favorite Uptown gay movies place is no more. As I arrived at their door, lights were out, shelves were bare. Nothing left to see but the 8 1/2 x 11 typed note, taped to the inside of the window.

A sadness crept over me, I thought of what’s his name… Little Big Voice? He was ALWAYS so helpful and such a sweetie… David I think it is…was… what would happen to him?

Further research led me to David’s Facebook page, which I’ll quote below:

More Trouble in Troubled Times
Wed at 1:55am
OK, this is for all my friends out there so that you are all in the know, and I don’t have to address everyone separately. In short, Movies On Central-my employer-has effectively been evicted from the property in which it has taken residence for the past 14 years. Davis Enterprises, a corporate, family-run property management co. (mis) manages the business complex at 4700 N Central Avenue in uptown Phoenix. MOC was a thriving business from its inception in 1995 and continued to steadily grow and win local accolades and notoriety throughout its first 10 years of operation. That is, until the uncontrollable monster that is Phoenix Metro Light Rail was born.

Now I know that there are various opinions on the Light Rail. It has its supporters and detractors, all of which have valid arguments for their positions. But this is just one story of the effect it has had on one business (though certainly not the ONLY business.) In May of 2006, construction officially began on the light rail project. Being that our business was located right off Central Avenue, the construction was right in our “front yard,” and directly on our main route of access. The street was torn up so badly at various points that there WAS no street. Central Avenue was completely inaccessible much of the time for at least a year and a half. Our numbers began to noticeably and sharply plummet that very same month the construction began. They have continued to decline over the past few years, basically going back down to the levels they were at in the first couple of years of operation. It cannot simply be a coincidence that this drop happened EXACTLY the moment the construction began. People stayed away from the area in droves, and continued to stay away as they had probably turned to other options via Netflix, Redbox, On Demand, or whatever. Then the economy tanked, just in time for the Light Rail to open! How ironic. In any case, the Light Rail has not been the cash cow that it was promised to be for local businesses, and we were never able to get back that business we had lost to its construction.

However, amidst all this gloom, MOC still had a loyal following and customer base, and although we may not have been thriving, we were surviving. Until the people at Davis Enterprises decided in the last quarter of 2008 to jack up the rent of its tenants to astronomical levels. Several of the business owners in the complex had to file for bankruptcy this past year just to keep their heads above water, and the management decides to hike up the rent. And I mean HIKE! And so the beginning of the end for Movies On Central was set in motion.

The management, in their starry-eyed capitalist droolings, started to see growth in the area, as new businesses were expressing interest in the vacancies on the property, and began to see big dollar signs clouding up their vision. Even though several of the long established businesses there had to significantly downsize in order to stay alive. We began to have great hardship when the rent was increased and had fallen behind, so we decided to downsize as well. However, we were met with either indifference or obstinance at every turn by the management. After finally getting the go-ahead to downsize, we had begun the process of moving all of our inventory into the front of the store, over half of which was already done, when all of a sudden , the management decided “oh, but we want you to move BACK into the suites off street.” Turns out they wanted that front corner space so they could charge top dollar for the next business to move in. OK, fine. But then no concessions were made to accommodate that move. A few weeks later, it was then suggested that we move into the back corner of the complex, back by the dumpsters. A tiny suite with no windows, without its own door, in the back of another business. For a well-established business that has been there for 14 years, that is simply insulting. And because we were a couple of months behind in the rent, when we refused their idea, we were evicted.

I thoroughly believe that they were wanting the space we were occupying to rent out to someone else from whom they could get more money. Plain and simple. And what is really upsetting is that MOC stuck around, steadfastly paid rent, and was essentially the ANCHOR of the complex during all of that construction when no one else wanted to touch the place. And so what do they do the minute there are some signs of life, they boot us!? All I can say is that it is people such as this who are the reason we are in such an economic downturn in the first place, and they apparently STILL haven’t learned their lesson. When numbers become more important than people, we are all destined to fail.

However, this is not necessarily the end for Movies On ??? We are looking for a new home. There is already a backlash growing over what has happened to us, and the local business community has been incredibly supportive. The overall consensus seems to be that we are indeed a fixture in the community and people are not ready to see us go down, not in this way. We have already scouted some new locations and have had offers from people who own space for rent. The New Times has gotten wind of it and wants to do a feature story about us. So there is hope. But for the time being, it is just a waiting game to see what happens next. And I am temporarily unemployed.

Keep your fingers crossed, everyone. And spread the word if you can. Every small effort is going to help at this point.

BTW If anyone knows of any job leads, please let me know! :)

[where: 4700 N. Central Avenue, Phoenix, AZ 85013]

Me and Michael Jackson, Similar Minds?

June 26th, 2009

One of my favorite past-times is personality typing. I find it FASCINATING, really. At last, I had a user’s manual for myself and those personalities around me with this new found tool. After learning a little more about Meyers Briggs and Carl Jung’s personality psychology and how it works, I quickly kicked astrology, numerology and the like to the curb.

Thriller

Thriller


Searching online for more about what makes me tick, I found lists of celebrities who shared my personality, The Healer / Idealist (INFP). “Oh, look… Princess Di!”, I thought to myself. She made me proud to be in the same realm, a few others… not so much.

Neal Diamond
Mister Rogers
Princess Di
Mother Theresa
William Shakespeare
Michael Jackson
Jackie O’
JFK, Jr.

Yeah, Michael Jackson and Mister Rogers I wasn’t exactly proud of. Oh… notice something similar between the celebs? I’ll give you answer at the end of this post.

Anyway, Michael’s death reminded me that we were similar and I wanted just double check to see if he was in fact an INFP. My search just led to more questions, but one thing I picked up Googling, was how caring many of his song lyrics were. How could such a bad person, write about doing such good things? Hmmm. INFP’s are by nature, very lyrical.

Man in the Mirror… Human Nature… Google the lyrics. And I didn’t find a single lyric promoting sex with boys. How about that for proof of his good nature? LOL.

Well, maybe I can disprove Mister Roger’s INFP-ism….

Answer to Similarities: Writing and Lyrics

First Annual Casa Grande Gay Day

June 25th, 2009

Casa Grande Gay Pride

138 Minutes of Fame

June 15th, 2009

Instinct MagazineRichard and I are going to be featured in the next issue of Instinct Magazine’s Couples Quiz! During two separate phone calls, they interview both of us to see how well we know each other. The editor, Jeff Katz had been trying to contact me all week to ask my questions.

I had been avoiding the call, fearing I’d say something stupid and then fail the quiz for all of Instinct’s subscribers to see. After 20 something odd years together, you’d think I would know what to say. I’m not sure how my comments about Richard’s preferences in bed are going to play. Hmmm, maybe I should warn him before print date?

This has to be our biggest “fame” event to date. I’m thinking, if you add up all of the times I’ve had my “15 Minutes of Fame”, subtract a few minutes here and there for the less worthy events, I should have around 138 minutes of fame! I’m including the brief quote in the Tucson newspaper about gay marriage, the time the ACLU included my site in one of their cases, pictures of me printed in local gay magazines and the like.

I’ll be sure to provide links to the section once its published. Stay tuned!